Elderly Drivers: When to Hang Up the Keys
June 10, 2011 Leave a comment
One of the great things about living in this country is the incredible independence with which we live our lives. For many people, this independence revolves around being able to travel in a car. It’s not easy to give that freedom up, even if you shouldn’t be driving. The facts speak for themselves: in an NHTSA study, it was found that senior citizens over 70 represent 9% of all drivers, but are responsible for 18% of pedestrian fatalities.
Driving tests for the elderly are becoming mandatory across the country, but not quickly enough. Moreover, most states only require tests at age 75 when chances are the damage has already been done. It is infinitely better for an elderly driver to hang up the keys on their own terms rather than being forced to by a state mandate or court order.
“an NHTSA study found that senior citizens over 70 represent 9% of all drivers, but are responsible for 18% of pedestrian fatalities. “
How to approach “The Talk”:
One of the hardest things to do is to confront an elderly loved one about driving. Hold the conversation face-to-face rather than through the phone. Remember to be non-accusatory and objective; use “I” instead of “you” (“I wouldn’t want you to hurt someone innocent” rather than “You’re going to hurt someone”).
The AARP has a list of 10 warning signs that should lead to the discontinuation of elderly driving; use these as resources to back up your argument if they apply.
- Almost crashing, with frequent “close calls”
- Finding dents and scrapes on the car, on fences, mailboxes, garage doors, curbs, or the like
- Getting lost
- Having trouble seeing or following traffic signals, road signs, and pavement markings
- Responding more slowly to unexpected situations, or having trouble moving your foot from the gas to the brake pedal; confusing the two pedals
- Misjudging gaps in traffic at intersections and on highway entrance and exit ramps
- Experiencing road rage or having other drivers frequently honk at you
- Easily becoming distracted or having difficulty concentrating while driving
- Having a hard time turning around to check over your shoulder while backing up or changing lanes
- Receiving traffic tickets or “warnings” from traffic or law enforcement officers in the last year or two
Even if your loved one will not give up their keys, hopefully they will modify their driving to lessen their chances of an accident (no more road trips, night driving). But whatever they do or do not agree to, start planning alternative transportation so a plan is in place should they need it. That might also facilitate a successful key-hang-up later down the road.


